I really love the Christmas season. I mean, really love it. My wonderful husband willingly put up the Christmas lights on our house the day after Thanksgiving. He was lying on the couch, relaxing, and he got up to put up our lights.
As a Christian, I attempt to hold in one hand Advent and the hope and expectation that the light of the world has come and will come into our hearts and lives, and in the other hand Dean Martin, Santa Claus, and my Christmas decorations.
The Christmas “season” is the most wonderful time of the year, after all!
But even as I fully embrace the cultural (not commercial) celebration of the season, I realize it is merely a shadow of the real joy of Christmas Day.
I was reading my favorite parenting newsletter, “A-ha! Parenting,” and this part of a note from a parent caught my eye:
…for my kids I try to be relaxed and fun. We make ornaments for friends and family in December and give them out as we see people — [this] gets us into the giving without thought of receiving. We take time to see the lights around town, to decorate and appreciate our tree. We talk about the other festivals of lights and remember that feasting and gifts are to make the darkest, coldest time of year merry. We celebrate the return of the sun. We relax and play and laugh and appreciate each other.
This is a really lovely sentiment, one I try to hold as well. It never gets old to hear my daughter “ohhhh!” at the same Christmas lights that we pass every afternoon. Her joy in this season becomes mine.
This sentiment, while meaningful and important for people, is missing out.
I don’t have a problem with our culture creating celebrations for random reasons. Santa comes to our house, after all! And for most people, Christmas is exactly about fun and love and just a time to celebrate. The “meaning of the season” is giving and caring and being with your friends and loved ones. During this season, even those who don’t celebrate for religious reasons fill the world with the love of God. I think that is a wonderful thing.
At the same time, these ideas point to the glory of Christ’s birth, but stops short of fully revealing the glory of the celebration.
In the northern hemisphere, it is truly a wonder that we celebrate the birth of Christ, the light of the world, during the darkest and coldest season of the year. For Christians, it’s a visceral, physical reminder of the stark difference between a world with Christ and a world without.
This is exactly where the cultural Christmas misses out. The world is dark. The fact that our souls feel nourished from the feasts and giving is because God has created us to be a community and in relationship with each other. These things can be healing. But they can’t change the fact that there are people in our own communities and around the world inflicting pain on our fellow human beings even as we laugh and sing. We can turn our eyes away from that darkness and try to wish it away. The lights and the parties don’t scare away that kind of dark.
For when the party’s over, after the last gift has been opened, we again find ourselves face-to-face with the darkness, both in ourselves and in the world around us.
The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light. For those who lived in a land of deep shadows— light! sunbursts of light! You repopulated the nation, you expanded its joy. Oh, they’re so glad in your presence! Festival joy! The joy of a great celebration, sharing rich gifts and warm greetings. The abuse of oppressors and cruelty of tyrants— all their whips and cudgels and curses— Is gone, done away with, a deliverance as surprising and sudden as Gideon’s old victory over Midian. (Isaiah 9:2-4, The Message)
As Christians, we have hope. The light of Christ has overcome and is overcoming and will overcome that darkness. We don’t have to fear even in the most complete darkness. Yet for those who build their hope upon the festivities of the season, the darkness returns once the lights are put away.
What if as Christians we offered the love and compassion of God instead of perpetuating the idea of a war on Christmas? People are hurting and broken – they don’t need war, they need love. Instead of a war, let’s acknowledge the darkness and offer the gift of love, the light of the world. Let’s help people more deeply understand the glory of the season they celebrate. Let’s help people see that their hope doesn’t have to live in a box that gets pulled out but once a year.
What kind of a revolution could we start?
Everything was created through him; nothing—not one thing!— came into being without him. What came into existence was Life, and the Life was Light to live by. The Life-Light blazed out of the darkness; the darkness couldn’t put it out. (John 1:3-5, The Message)
While the world feels dark and cold during the Christmas season, we can share the hope of the “Life-Light,” the light of Christ, blazing into the darkness, which even the darkest of dark cannot put out.
Santa Claus isn’t big enough to dim that light.